When do we ever learn how to touch?
Generally, our private sexual experiences rarely or never include honest feedback from those we touch about how we touch them. This leads most of us to rely on our intuition or even guesswork. Even if we want to talk about it, we often do not have the words to describe touch and types of touch in a way which the other will understand.
At Ananda we consider touch to be a practical, creative skill with a range of qualities:
from very soft, tender caressing touch, perhaps with oil or feathers, through to powerful, deep massage techniques. There is a wide spectrum of possibilities, all of which can facilitate sensual enjoyment and erotic moments for our partner. In particular, intimate massages for women and for men that include the genital area are a speciality of the house at Ananda: our practitioners have a broad experience of different types of massage and touch.
An experienced massage practitioner from the Ananda team will (quite literally) take you by the hand and show you the most important aspects to know. Without the peer pressure which may arise in a workshop or seminar, there’s space for learning with fun and enjoyment. Touch can be learned like any other practical skill. Knowing how to touch can be a valuable way to enrich and enliven your relationship.